Cloth Diapering 101 — Part 3 — Frequently Asked Questions

This is part three of a comprehensive three-part series that I wrote for parents who are brand new to cloth diapering. I have put a lot of time, research, and love into this ¬†series, and I truly hope that it helps you on your cloth diapering journey. I appreciate any and all feedback. Please don’t ever hesitate to contact me with questions on cloth diapering, I will be happy to help! I hope you find this series helpful, and discover a love for cloth diapering! ūüôā
 
Part 3: Frequently Asked Questions:
 
 
If you’re considering making the switch to cloth, you’re probably asking yourself:
 
1. How many diapers do I need to buy to cloth diaper full-time? 

The short answer is around 12-36, depending on the age of your baby, how often they need to be changed, and how often you plan on doing the laundry.
In order to decide how many diapers to buy, you need to first decide how often you are willing to wash the diapers. Diaper laundry isn’t a big deal: You just do one wash on cold to rinse everything out and one wash on hot to get them good and clean, then hang your¬† waterproof covers to dry and throw everything else in the dryer. (I start our diaper laundry at night a few hours before I go to bed, so it’s not another chore to add to my already busy day.) So you just need to decide how often you want to do this. Every other day or every 3rd day is what most people choose, since you don’t want dirty diapers just sitting around forever getting nasty.¬†
Next, figure out how many diaper changes your baby goes through in a day. For my 1 year old, that’s about 5-7. For newborns, it’ a lot more — more like 10-12. Then, just multiply to figure out how many diapers you will need.¬†
For my 1 year old, if I wanted to do the laundry every third day, I would need to buy 6×3, or at least 18 cloth diapers to be covered. It’s always nice to have a few extras, but you can get by just fine with the minimum. And you don’t want to be buying extra diapers all¬† ¬†the time, or you’ll run up your diaper bill in the same way disposables ran it up, defeating your purpose if you’re converting to cloth to save money.¬†

 
2. Which kind of cloth diapers should I choose?
 
The answer to this one is personal, and depends on what you’re looking for in a cloth diaper, as well as the age and size of your baby. Venturing into the cloth diapering world, you’ll soon discover that there are gazillions of modern cloth options to choose from.¬†
Not all cloth diapers are the same. They vary in shape, size, type of fabric, level of convenience/ease compared to disposables, absorbency, price, etc. Not only that, but there are gazillions of brands of cloth diapers to choose from within each cloth diaper type. 
I’ve broken down the different kinds of cloth diapers in Part 2, with some examples of popular brands that make them.¬†
But, because every baby is different (different size and shape, different age and stage, different skin sensitivities, different amounts of “wetting”) what one mom swears by might not work on your baby at all, and visa versa.
Before investing a whole bunch of money into a certain kind of diaper, your best bet is to ask the advice of retailers and/or search forums like http://www.diaperswappers.com and http://www.diaperpin.com for reviews on the different diaper types and brands you’re considering. If you have a “heavy wetter” with long skinny legs, for example, chances are there’s another parent out there who has one too, and who wrote a review singing the praises of a certain diaper for it’s absorbency and good fit on skinny babies.¬†
Once you’ve narrowed your options down to a few kinds of diapers or a few brands of diapers that you think might work for your baby, I would suggest that you set yourself a little “sampling” budget, and buy one of each kind. (There are even some retailers that offer “trial” packages or have “love it or leave it” return policies, or you can buy a few used diapers from places like diaperswappers.com or ebay, to save a little money during the “trial” stage.) Try them out on your baby for a few days and see which you like best. You can sell the ones that didn’t work so well on diaperswappers or ebay (diapers sell¬†super¬†fast on the diaperswappers website!), or you can keep them as backup diapers. Then you can feel more comfortable investing in a whole set of a certain kind of diapers.
 
 
3. Is there anything else I need in order to convert to cloth diapering?

There are lots of fun gadgets and gizmos available that make cloth diapering more convenient. But if you’re sticking to a budget, the only other things you’ll really need are a diaper pail (ie. trash can with lid), a waterproof diaper pail liner that can be washed along with the diapers on wash day, a portable, waterproof, smell-proof, washable¬† “wet bag” for holding dirty diapers when you’re out and about or traveling, and a laundry detergent that is considered “safe” for cloth diapers.¬†This chart¬†can help you choose a laundry detergent, but keep in mind that it won’t necessarily harm your diapers to continue using whatever detergent you’re already using on your other laundry. (Yes, I am one of those cloth diapering rebels who thinks the whole “safe” cloth diaper detergent is a total myth!)¬†

Purex Free and Clear, Country Save, Tiny Bubbles, Rockin’ Green, and Tide are probably the most popular laundry detergents for use with cloth diapers.¬†¬†

 
4. How do I wash the diapers?

Diaper laundry should not be complicated!¬†I cannot stress this enough. In fact, I’m so passionate about this subject, I wrote an entire blog post about it here.¬†

The more you research cloth diapers, the more you are going to run into a plethora of potentially overwhelming laundry advice, much of which will tell you to use a minimal amount of laundry detergent in order to “preserve” your diapers, or prevent “build up.” FORGET this advice! Diaper laundry does not have to be this complicated. Diapers are cloth, just like anything else that you launder. Treat them that way, and they will get clean, and you will never have stinky diapers.¬†

How to wash:
Diapers, covers, inserts, diaper pail liners, etc, can all be washed together. Wash them at least once on cold without detergent to rinse everything out. Using cold water in the rinse will prevent stains from setting. Then wash them once on hot with plenty of detergent. (Don’t skimp like some well-meaning cloth diaperers suggest. Follow the directions for load size on your detergent bottle. Your baby is¬†pooping¬†on these things. You logically want to use¬†more¬†soap not¬†less. If detergent doesn’t damage your clothes, it’s not going to damage your diapers.) Make sure to turn on the extra rinse cycle to get the suds rinsed out if your baby is sensitive to soapy smells/residue. The hot wash and using plenty of detergent will help kill all the yuckies in the diaper, so that they smell clean and fresh when they come out of the washer. The extra rinse will help rinse away any remaining suds, to prevent residue buildup that can mess with the absorbency of the diapers. Hang the diaper covers and pail liners to dry. Dry everything else in the dryer. Done!

 
If your diapers are clean but have some staining, you can lay them out on a sunny day and the sun will bleach out the stains.
It is generally not recommended to use bleach on cloth diapers, but read your labels. Some diaper manufacturers recommend it, others will void their warranty if you use it. Don’t be afraid to use a little bleach once in a while to kill those stubborn stinkies.¬† ¬†
Using vinegar and/or baking soda is controversial. If not thoroughly rinsed out of the diaper, the acid in vinegar can mix with your baby’s pee and cause a bad smell. But vinegar is a fabulous deodorizer and fabric softener (I use it on our regular laundry all the time) so the key is to use sparingly and rinse well.

 
5. Do I really have to scrape poop into the toilet?

It’s not as bad as you think. The general rule of thumb is to dump the dirty diaper over the toilet, and what doesn’t fall off, the washing machine will wash out for you. If you want, you can use a “wet pail” method, where, after dumping, you put the the dirty diapers in a pail filled with water and detergent to hold until wash day. But most people¬† ¬†skip this step, because wet pails have to be changed frequently, and they’ve been known to be drowning hazards for small children. The toilet-dumping method will work perfectly fine. If your child is like mine and doesn’t have “dump-able” poos, I feel your pain. But there’s a simple solution: you can invest in a diaper sprayer and spray the mess off the diaper into the toilet, or (my personal frugal remedy) cut up some fleece to make yourself some fleece liners to line the inside of the diaper. The poop will get on those instead of the diapers, and you can just swoosh the liner in the toilet while flushing, and the mess will be sucked off the liner and down the toilet. (Fleece naturally wicks moisture away, so it also makes a great stay-dry liner for babies who are prone to rashes when their bums get wet!) ¬†

 
6. Does this mean I have to switch to cloth wipes too?

No! Not if you don’t want to. I did for a time, but I also use disposable wipes. You may want to consider cloth wipes if you are having rash and sensitivity issues.¬†

If you want to try cloth wipes, rest assured that it’s the easiest thing in the world. Even if you decide to stick with disposable diapers, cloth wipes are super convenient and work better than disposable wipes. For me, it takes a ton of disposable wipes to clean up my son when he has a messy bum. But it only ever takes one or two cloth wipes. Because it’s basically like washing your child with a washcloth — more efficient.¬†

I keep my cloth wipes in a wipes warmer, for the ultimate luxurious diaper changing experience. My kiddo used to throw the most dramatic tantrum whenever he had a messy diaper, and I finally realized one day that he was dreading the cold, rough wipes that were giving him a rash. As soon as I switched to cloth and a wipes warmer, his rash cleared up and he stays calm now when I’m cleaning him up!
 
How to make your own cloth baby wipes:
 
You don’t have to buy anything or do anything fancy. You can use baby washcloths or cut up some of your baby’s old flannel receiving blankets and sew the edges with a serger or sewing machine to keep them from fraying. You can make flannel wipes any size you want. 8×8 is a common size, and they fit nicely into an old wipes container or a wipes warmer when folded and stacked. I made some thicker, smaller ones that fit into the warmer without being folded by cutting up my son’s flannel receiving blankets and sewing two pieces together back-to-back.
 
If you do want to get fancy, you can buy some terry cloth and some flannel in cute baby prints from your local fabric store, cut to your preferred size, round the corners, and sew the edges, then top stitch. Voila! Terry cloth on one side for the messiest messes, and soft, cute flannel on the other!   
 
For the wipes solution, you can use plain old water, or you can mix 1.5 cups of water with 1-2tbs of baby wash and 2 tbs baby oil. Put the dry cloth wipes in a pot or Tupperware container and pour the solution over them, and swish around to let them absorb. You can find some fancier wipe solution recipes on the internet that contain essential oils and whatnot. Or, you can skip the whole homemade thing and buy a pre-made wipe solution from most online stores that sell cloth diapers.


7. Cloth Diapering Seems Expensive. Can I cloth diaper for less than $100? 

Absolutely yes! Now, you may have to be less picky about the kind of cloth diapers you buy and some of the accessories (I don’t mean skimping on quality, I mean the fancy-factor) but I believe that it is absolutely do-able. This makes cloth diapering a great alternative if you are trying to save as much money as possible on diapers. (This is also assuming that you are not cloth diapering a newborn. Things could get a little more expensive if you plan to buy newborn sized diapers and regular cloth diapers.)¬†

Here is a hypothetical cloth diaper stash that I put together for under $100. Keep in mind that you can probably find these diapers even cheaper during a sale or if you buy used:

$22.65 — 12¬†Imagine brand premium prefold diapers¬†(My current favorite brand, but feel free to check out other quality brands listed in my other posts.)

$71.70 — 6¬†Econobum One-Size Diaper Covers¬†(You can definitely find these for less than the listed price. Look for them for around $8 each during “seconds sales” on the Cotton babies website, look for them for sale on other cloth diapering websites, and look for them used.)

Total = $94.35

With this stash, you will have to wash your diapers every day up to every-other-day (which you should be doing no matter how large your stash is), and you will have to keep the dirty ones in an old pillow case or trash bag, as there is no special wetbag included in this stash. But for less than $100, these quality diapers should last you through several children, and you will be diapering for free for years! Prefolds will always be my favorites!

 

Cloth Diapering 101 — Part 2 — Types of Cloth Diapers


This is part three of a comprehensive three-part series that I wrote for parents who are brand new to cloth diapering. I have put a lot of time, research, and love into this ¬†series, and I truly hope that it helps you on your cloth diapering journey. I appreciate any and all feedback. Please don’t ever hesitate to contact me with questions on cloth diapering, I will be happy to help! I hope you find this series helpful, and discover a love for cloth diapering! ūüôā

Cloth Diapering 101 — Part 2 — Types of Cloth diapers:



The three most basics types: Diaper Covers, Prefolds, and Flats:

These are a lot like the cloth diapers your moms and grandmoms used, but much improved. I know what you’re thinking. “I’m NOT doing pins, so forget it. What else ya got?”¬† Pins and Prefolds have scared enough people away that some very creative people out there have come up with some pretty easy (albeit, more expensive) alternatives, which are explained below. BUT, if you are looking for an economical way to cloth diaper your baby (as opposed to just wanting to “go green” at any expense) the prefold or¬† flats system is worth considering. Once you understand them, prefolds and flats are actually two of the easiest, most inexpensive, and well-trusted systems to use — lots of moms swear by them. AND they’ve been improved and modernized. Read: NO PINS REQUIRED!

      1. Diaper Covers 


  • These are just that: covers. They are made from waterproof material (usually a material called PUL, but wool and fleece covers are also a popular option) and come in a variety of colors and cute prints. They are used to cover the absorbent diaper, usually a prefold, flat, insert, or fitted diaper (see below), and keep your baby’s clothes dry.
  • They look like disposable diapers and go on your baby in much the same way as a disposable, but must always be paired with a prefold or other absorbent diaper, as they do not contain any absorbent materials.¬†
  • They are secured on the sides with snaps or velcro, like a disposable diaper. (Some people with squirmy babies prefer the kind that velcro, because it’s a little easier and faster to attach. Others can’t stand the velcro because it can get funky in the wash and/or their kids pull the velcro off and/or the velcro can rub against a sensitive baby’s skin. (I thought I would hate snaps but have found them pretty easy, even with my squirmy 1-year-old.)¬†
  • Some brands sell diaper covers in one size, that adjust with snaps to fit a newborn through to potty training. Other brands sell them in several different sizes according to how much the baby weighs.¬† ¬†
  • While you will need to buy 12-36+ absorbent cloth diapers (depending on how often your baby needs a change and how often you want to do the laundry) you only need to buy a few diaper covers, as the same cover can be wiped down and reused with fresh cloth diapers more than once throughout the day.¬†

      2. Prefolds 


  • Paired with diaper covers, prefolds (and/or flats) are one of the most inexpensive cloth diapering systems available.
  • Prefolds are shaped like rectangles and are made of several layers of 100% cotton that are thickest in the middle and can be tri-folded and placed lengthwise in a waterproof diaper cover, or folded the old-fashioned way around your baby and secured — pin-less! — with an elastic device called a “snappi” and a diaper cover.¬†
  • They come in several different sizes, so you must purchase some in every size to cover your baby from infant to potty training, BUT they are very inexpensive (about $2 each), and the smaller sizes can be used to “double up” in your older baby’s diapers later on if they are a “heavy wetter” or need a little extra absorbency overnight. (You can also “double up” by adding an “insert” or “doubler” on top of a prefold — see below.)
  • Most stores sell 2 kinds of prefolds: “Chinese prefolds” and “Indian prefolds”. They are essentially the same, but the name denotes where they were made. Everybody has their opinion on which is better, but Indian prefolds are said to be softer. Indian prefolds are becoming more common of the two.
  • You can buy them “bleached” or “natural”. The natural is said to hide staining better. Bleached are said to be softer. You can also purchase them in organic cotton, if that’s your thing.¬†
  • You MUST prewash and dry prefolds at least 3 times before using them for the first time, or they won’t be fully absorbent. The retailer you purchase them from will give you directions, but generally, prefolds must be prewashed and dried 3-7 times in hot water, or they won’t absorb correctly. Some moms skip this step by boiling their prefolds and then washing and drying them once. It’s thought that the hotter the water, the more the natural oils of the cotton that inhibit maximum absorbency are drawn out. After prewashing, the prefolds will fluff up (aka “quilt up”) a little, shrink a little, and get a little softer. With each wash, they will become softer and more absorbent.
  • At $1-2 a piece, prefolds are the simplest, most economical cloth diapering system. They are among the most durable of diapers, and will last through all of your children. And, when you’re done having children, they make fabulous cleaning rags!¬† ¬† ¬†¬†

      3. Flats 
  • Flats are the old-fashioned cloth diaper. They are very similar to prefolds, but they consist of only one, large square layer of the same thickness all the way around, and must be folded many times to create an absorbent diaper. Flats can be folded into the size and shape of prefolds, then used like prefolds, or they can be folded in many different ways and secured with pins or a snappi to fit your baby just right. A quick search on You Tube will bring up dozens of videos that can show you how to fold flat diapers.
  • They are the original “one size fits all” diaper. Some companies sell them in different sizes, but the standard size flat is 27×27 inches, and can be folded to fit a newborn, or folded differently to fit an infant or a toddler.¬†
  • They are generally available in two different materials: birdseye (bleached or unbleached) or muslin. Birdseye is more common, and said to be trimmer, while muslin is said to be slightly more absorbent and “quilty”. Some moms have been known to use old flannel receiving blankets as flats (they can be found for super cheap in stores like Ross and Marshalls). Flats can really be made out of any large square material that you can imagine!¬†
  • Many cloth diapering moms fall in love with flats after trying all the fancy new cloth diapering options, because they are simple, inexpensive, durable, long-lasting, easy to care for, and completely customizable.¬†
  • They are known to be the easiest diapers to clean and the fastest to dry, making them popular with moms who line dry or frequently travel.¬† ¬†¬†
  • At around $15 per dozen, flat diapers are truly the most economical cloth diapering system available. For under $100, you could buy 24 flats and 4 covers to cloth diaper a newborn full-time!¬†¬†¬† ¬†

Other Types of Cloth Diapers:

1. Fitteds


  • Fitteds are more convenient than flats and prefolds, because they eliminate the need for folding and pinning. They are essentially pre-shaped prefolds, with elastic sewn at the legs and back.¬†
  • They are shaped more like disposable diapers, instead of just a flat piece of material, and come in various sizes and in a variety of materials.
  • “Prefitteds” is a term referring to prefolds that have been sewn and turned into fitteds. Other fitteds can be made from a variety of materials, including flannel, bamboo, and hemp. Hemp is a very absorbent, popular material for use with “heavy wetting” babies, and is also an option for “inserts” and “doublers” (see below). Many ¬† ¬†“WAHMS” or work-at-home-moms make fitted diapers in cute prints, and they become sort of a collectible item.¬†
  • Fitteds are available for as little as around $6 each, or for as much as $26+. As explained above, the least expensive fitteds are sometimes called “prefitteds”, and are essentially prefolds that have been cut to the shape of a diaper and had elastic sewn at the legs. More expensive fitteds come in a variety of cute prints and colors, as well as a variety of materials like bamboo and hemp, and have snaps or velcro added for easy, snappi-less attaching.¬†
  • Like flats and prefolds, fitteds require a diaper cover.¬†
  • Like prefolds, they must be purchased in several sizes to fit a baby from newborn to potty training. (Though some companies make fitteds in a “one size fits all”.)
  • Unlike prefolds, however, fitteds can’t really be reused once your baby grows out of them. Newborn sized prefolds and small flats, on the other hand, make great “doublers” to add extra absorbency to an older baby’s diaper for overnight. The trade-off is that fitteds are much more convenient and need no folding or pinning/snappi-ing, and they are famous for their ability to contain “blowouts”.¬†

2. Pockets


  • Pocket diapers are slightly more convenient than fitteds, flats, and prefolds, because they have the waterproof diaper cover built in,¬†and¬†an absorbent fleece or suede-cloth lining on the inside that is meant to wick away moisture from your baby’s skin, keeping them feeling dry.¬†
  • Pocket diapers are basically diaper covers with a fleece or suede-cloth lining on the inside. Behind the lining is an opening, the “pocket”, which can be stuffed with various “inserts” to make the diapers absorbent.¬†
  • They are sold in various sizes, or in an adjustable, one-size-fits-all.¬†
  • Inserts are available in a variety of materials, such as cotton, organic cotton, bamboo, hemp, flannel, microfleece, etc. If you are looking to find just the right absorbency for your baby while avoiding “bowling butt” (ie, keeping the diaper trim looking) pocket diapers provide all kinds of options.¬†
  • Parents who have issues with rashes often try these because of the lining, which is supposed to help wick away moisture and keep baby’s bum dry. Other parents like pocket diapers because they are easier for dad, grandma, and the babysitter to put on!¬†
  • The great thing about pocket diapers is that they are flexible for the absorbency needs of your baby. If you have a “heavy wetter” or want extra absorbency for overnight, pocket diapers can be stuffed with as many extra layers of inserts as you¬† need. If you don’t need extra absorbency and want a trimmer diaper, you can just use one insert, or one prefold diaper, or other “stuffer” in the pocket. ¬†
  • The drawback with pocket diapers is that, because of the attached lining, they can’t be re-used like diaper covers can. So you will have to buy as many pocket diapers as you will inserts, increasing your cost. This is where you have to weigh cost vs. convenience and see which is more important to you.

3. All-In-Ones (AIOs)
  • Aka “AIO’s”, these are the most like disposables and therefore the most convenient cloth diapers of all.¬†
  • They are essentially permanently stuffed pocket diapers, with the absorbent layers, fleece linings, waterproof diaper cover, etc, all attached. You don’t need to add anything, just pop the AIO off and on like a disposable, and baby is good to go!
  • They are sold in varying sizes, based on your baby’s weight.¬†
  • Many parents choose these because they are just as convenient as disposable diapers, and daycares, nurseries, and babysitters don’t have a problem with them. They’re great for travel too, because of their ease of use.¬†
  • Like pocket diapers, however, they must be washed after each use, so you will have to buy lots of them and re-buy them in new sizes as your baby grows. At around $20 each, this can add up big time.¬†

4. Hybrids (AI2s)

  • Hybrid diapers are a cross between cloth and disposables — they consist of a reusable diaper cover and a separate, biodegradable disposable “insert” or “liner”.¬†
  • Because the biodegradable inserts are designed to be thrown out instead of washed, hybrid diapers are a great option for eco-friendly parents who want the convenience of disposable diapers without the “500 years in a land fill” guilt that comes along with using disposable diapers. They are also great for traveling — not as much laundry!¬†
  • They are somewhat like pocket diapers, except that they don’t have any inside lining, just a place to attach or lay the absorbent insert. So, unlike with pocket diapers, you can throw away the inserts and use the covers more than once. In that sense, they’re more like diaper covers.¬†
  • Because you have to continually buy the disposable inserts, these are not really an option for those looking to save money with cloth diapering, but they are a great option for those who are considering cloth diapering their babies for the sake of the earth, and don’t want to deal with so much laundry.
  • That being said, many hybrid diapers also offer reusable cloth inserts, making hybrids a great option for parents looking for something like the pocket diaper system, but with the more economical re-usability and flexibility of the separate diaper covers.
  • Flips (by Cotton Babies) are a brand of hybrids that offer cloth inserts — these are one of my personal top choices for my kiddos, because of their ease, flexibility, and more economical price when compared to pocket diapers. The inserts are made of microfiber, and are almost as inexpensive as prefolds and flats, but slightly more ¬† ¬†convenient (and more trim looking) than prefolds. The thing I love about Flips is that the covers and inserts are “one size fits all”. So I can use them with both of my children and don’t have to buy more in the future as they grow. And I can play around with the different types of cloth inserts that are available (or even use inexpensive prefolds!) to get just the right amount of absorbency for my kids. They’re fully customizable! ¬†
 5. Wool


  • Wool covers are a popular alternative to PUL diaper covers, especially for babies prone to rashes who require a more breathable cover. Wool is also a popular overnight cover.¬†
  • Wool can absorb up to 30% of its weight in moisture, as well as repel moisture with it’s natural lanolin-containing properties. It is extremely breathable, as well as anti-microbial.¬†
  • Wool is a more expensive option, but for many parents who struggle with diaper rashes, it’s well worth the price.¬†
  • Wool covers are available in a knit/crocheted version, or a washable interlock (5% spandex) version. They are also available in the form of knit “longies” (pants), “shorties” (shorts), and “skirties” (skirts with soakers attached). Since wool soakers can be more bulky looking than other diaper covers, longies etc are a popular choice among parents who use wool as a day-time diaper cover, as it combines clothes and diaper cover.¬†
  • Wool is easy to take care of and only needs to be hand washed every 1-2 weeks. There is a great tutorial on washing wool here:¬†http://greenmountaindiapers.com/lanolize.htm
  • There’s some great information on wool here:¬†http://www.diaperpin.com/clothdiapers/article_wool.asp¬†

Where to Buy Cloth Diapers/Well-Known Brands of Cloth Diapers:
(Note: This is¬†definitely¬†an incomplete list, but here are some links to some of the most popular and trusted brands in each category of cloth diapering. I have done a lot of research over the years that I am sharing with you — note that I do not endorse these companies or benefit in any way from you clicking on or purchasing from the links below.)
  • Wool: Sustainablebabyish, Woolybottoms, Loveybums, Wild Child Woolies, Hyenacart¬†
  • “Work At Home Mom” (WAHM-made) diapers: Mama-made diapers are a popular alternative to the major cloth diaper brands. WAHM diapers can often be custom ordered and can be found for sale on¬†Hyena Cart¬†and¬†Etsy.